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My mom did a good job writing about me for three years but she kept saying when I was ready I had to do it.  Well, I am.  So now it’s my turn to write about myself. I hope you like reading what I write. It won’t be as long as my mom’s but that might be a good thing!  (Just kidding Mom) Well first of all let me tell you about me. I LOVE the musical Wicked and so that is where the quote on my banner, ”Changed for good” comes from. My mom and I used to sing that song together all the time. And now it’s more true than ever. And as weird as it sounds I’m a little obsessed with my fiancé Chris Medina.   Actually it’s not that weird and it’s not just a little.

Since its Valentine’s Day I thought it would be appropriate that I share something with you that I wrote about Chris a very long time ago that I still feel today.  

I wrote this in April 2009 and posted it on my Facebook page and called it ‘My Public Love Note to Chris Medina’.  It was true then but it is more true now, especially the part about relationships being hard and having ups and downs. I am one of the lucky ones.

Here it is:
“So as most of us already know, relationships are HARD and can really have their ups and downs. They're quite the balancing act between what you need and want and what you can and are willing to deal with what you don't...
I'm choosing to focus on the positive right now. These are the things that will keep me loving Chris Medina the rest of my life:
<3 he is an awesome cook. That goes very far in my book
<3 I know I can truly trust him. There's a huge difference in wanting to believe you have that in someone and actually KNOWING it's there.
<3 he's a hard worker
<3 even after almost 7 years, (almost 11 years now) he still compliments me every day and really makes me feel attractive and appreciated by him 
<3 he doesn't get jealous even though I do...
<3 he doesn't hold THAT against me
<3 he accepts the difficulty that is me for who I am...this is a big one, I don't think I could count on many people doing this the way he does
<3 let's face it-the guy can rock!
<3 I believe the combination of Chris and I will make for good parents...we'll see...
<3 he is genuinely interested in my own personal happiness outside of our relationship and encourages me to go out and do the things that make me happy and will improve my life
<3 my family loves him like their own and vice versa
<3 he never rushes me when I'm taking forever to get ready
<3 I secretly like that he sucks at surprises because it just assures me even more that he's a pretty terrible liar and trickster.
<3 I love being with someone who's passionate about what they do
<3 he always brings me home iced coffee from work
<3 he watches American Idol with me and pretends to be as interested as I am (Now THAT’S funny)
<3 he's a man's man but not a...stupid…"testosterony"...guy trying to seem manly...ya know?
<3 he gives me a new, different compliment every time I do my nails (I know that's small, but it really makes me happy when I get to present them to him)
<3 The voice! The voice had me from day one. (Well...day two anyway :) Not only his obviously brilliant singing voice but just the nature of his speaking voice gets me
<3 he's got my favorite head of hair to cut-even though the second my hands get on it he quickly head bobs his way into sleepy land
<3 the two of us just so happen to agree on almost every major issue that could be deal breakers if we didn't (religion, family and parenting, the environment, politics...)
<3 he has a beautiful last name that I will proudly be taking later this year :)
Ok so that last one is still on hold but I am happy because he is still my fiance!
Here are some pictures from 2009, before obviously.


 


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Suzy
02/13/2013 9:38pm

What a great first post, Juliana! Looking forward to reading many more!!!!!!! :-)

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Tim P.
02/14/2013 12:18am

I am so proud of you Julianna and I loved reading your first blog! I cannot wait to read your next! You all are in my heart, thoughts, and prayers! I hope that you all have a safe Valentines Day!

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arianne
02/14/2013 8:49am

Really adorable and wonderful... my fiance and I are celebrating our 2nd year together and are getting married in Sept. Love is an amazing and wonderful thing!!!

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michelle langdon-jenkins
02/14/2013 9:33am

So glad you get to be the one to write instead of your mom. My friend is doing well on her journey with TBI in her two years since her accident and I'm so happy to hear that you are doing pretty well in your journey and that you have someone who truly loves you and is willing to stick by your side because that's a big thing I've learned with my friend's injury is that a lot of people who she thought were there for her simply disappeared. Happy Valentine's day and hope you guys get to do something special for each other.

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Amber B.
02/15/2013 10:06am

Isn't it great finding past love notes or lists that you've written about your significant other. You can ponder the past and future, revisit and laugh at all the good times. I have a stash of old love letters my husband and I used to write to each other before we had email and cell phones. Funny old things. Julianna, your post was wonderful. Your list was a perfect first start to your blog on this Valentines Day! It seems as though you have a niche in writing (must be in your genes). I'm looking forward to your next entry!

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Paula
02/15/2013 8:29pm

Wow!!! What a great read Juliana :) I can"t wait to read more of what you have to say. By the way I have your blog on my favorites. Keep up the great job my dear <3

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anne
02/16/2013 12:44am

I would love to leave a comment but I need help. How do I leave a comment without having to click 'reply' on someone else's post ? I just want to write my own comment, I see nowhere to leave my comment. Thanks!

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Suzy
02/16/2013 3:20pm

Scroll down to the verrrrrrrrrry bottom. :-)

anne
02/21/2013 12:02am

Thanks for trying Suzi, but I just reach the end of the page, the final comment. There is nowhere to add my own comment. Any other ideas? :)

melissa
02/13/2013 11:16pm

Awesome! I am definitely looking forward to reading all of your posts. This is a great kick off! xoxo

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Lori
02/13/2013 11:28pm

Ahhh.... The Lady of the Hour! Hi Juli! It's so great to hear from you!

You guys certainly do have something special, you definitely have one of the good ones! I wouldn't mind meeting a guy who could stand up to that list!

Happy Valentine's Day to you both!

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Brittany
02/13/2013 11:31pm

Happy Valentine's Day to you Both!!! <3

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Kathleen
02/13/2013 11:34pm

Can't wait to read more Juiana! :)

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Amber Richard
02/13/2013 11:34pm

So glad to read words in your own voice! Beautiful, Juliana :) Wicked was the first musical to ever make me truly cry. I'm with you, there, and I also am a little obsessed with my fiance haha. That's ok!

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02/13/2013 11:37pm

Reading your blog just completely made my night! I can relate to being with someone for a long time! Tomorrow will be the 10th Valentine's that I have spent with my fiance. And I don't think it's weird to be obsessed... it's a good obsession when it's for the one that you love! Great pictures from now and then... can't wait to read more :D

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Stephanie Cockle
02/13/2013 11:38pm

I loved you both from the moment I saw Chris in American Idol and I love that you are now writing your own post!!! Awesome!! Can't wait to read more of what YOU have to say!!!

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Pearl
02/13/2013 11:39pm

I love it..... Just as beautiful as u;)

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Laura
02/13/2013 11:41pm

Juliana...such a rarity these days to not only devote but to express such love and admiration for a loved one. You both are amazingly inspirational to us (the world).

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Mikee
02/13/2013 11:41pm

I am so happy to read your thoughts, Juli. I have been following you since AI. Good luck to your continued recovery!

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Diane
02/13/2013 11:42pm

Congrats on your first of many blogs to come!!! Happy for you and looking forward to reading more of your words.

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bailey
02/13/2013 11:42pm

so excited to see you writing & can't wait to see more of what you have to say.

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02/13/2013 11:47pm

You sound like the same Juli to me :)

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Janice
02/13/2013 11:47pm

Happy Valentine's Day, Juliana. I'm happy to have just read your first blog entry. Keep them coming....please!!

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02/13/2013 11:51pm

Loved it. So cool to hear a post in your words. I look forward to reading more!

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Rita Ramos
02/13/2013 11:53pm

I am so proud of u Jules!!! U have come a long way and deserve to b writing ur own blog. U r a great writer and its great to hear things right from u. Love u and Chris xoxo

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Maggie M
02/13/2013 11:53pm

Still can't get over how much I loveeeeeee your new photo with Chris. Hot couple right there!

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Didrick
02/16/2013 9:46am

That new picture of them together is amazing, they look so happy! And I love the blog post as well, looking forward to read more! :)

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diane haislip
02/13/2013 11:55pm

Wonderful job Juliana! I'm impressed at how well you have opened up your heart to us, letting us know how you feel about yourself and Chris. Im really hoping you and Chris can be united as one, you both deserve each other. God bless both of you.

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Kathy Cantu
02/13/2013 11:58pm

It's so great to see you getting back in the swing of things! You seem so happy and you write a great blog! Looking forward to many more! Stay strong juli, you deserve it!

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Lindsey
02/14/2013 12:00am

I love your post! I am also engaged to my best friend and I was laughing at how much I agree with you when it comes to what I love about my fiancé! We are two lucky ladies! I can't wait to read more!! And PS even though you don't believe Chris or your mom when they tell you... You are famous :) EVERYONE loves you!

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Shawna
02/14/2013 12:02am

I'm so happy to see you writing Juliana!!! Have a great valentines day!

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Mara
02/14/2013 12:04am

Well done,Jules!...Looking forward to reading about life from your perspective......

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Patricia Stanton
02/14/2013 12:10am

The love you both share is unique and captured my heart from the moment I saw you both on American Idol. You are doing so well and this blog is going to be an even bigger success with you writing. Everyone loves you both. Happy Valentine's Day <3

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Laura
02/14/2013 12:11am

Awwe how presh! Thanks for taking over the blog Juliana! I'm sure I can speak for everyone when I say we are SO excited to hear from you. I know you are realizing it more and more, but you're kind of a big deal ya know? ;)
You are in my prayers every night believe it or not...hold your head up always...you will get where you want to be I just know it. Lots of love from San Diego - Laura

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Bonita
02/14/2013 12:16am

Happy Valentine's Day, sweets!! What a great first blog entry. You've got this!!

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02/14/2013 12:19am

Juliana! I AM so excited for you to have made it to this point in your healing. Me, being a traumatic brain injury survivor 10 years ago at the age of 21 truly understands and knows exactly how you are feeling. Well, maybe not exactly but I think you understand me here.

I have posted here before many times on how I healed as I have but not sure if my messages ever made it through to you or your mom. Either way, you seem to be doing just fine on your own.

It is funny as the healing seems to be slow at times when we actually cue in to think about it but it truly isn't at all. Honestly, appreciate every second of your current reality as you have so much to gain from where you are. Sure, we want to be as we were and the same person and it makes it hard when most everyone closest to us (not trying to) brings our difference to our awareness.

We can feel as though we have to do all we can To Be that girl again when truly, we became as we are for a reason and it is a good reason and this moment is to realize why we have and then embrace who we are NOW with the fullest, most pure, and unconditional love.

All in all friend, I continue to root for you and I Know you will heal in ways you never thought possible and that you will be the happiest you have ever been given this experience.

Much Love to You,
Always,
Cene

PS. Someday I truly hope (more-like plan to) meet you. You amaze me and your story shall continue to flow with magic, so embrace it to its fullest and Create it as you wish. There is magic in our imagination, our beliefs, and from the pen. The more you imagine and write about it as it is NOW, you will believe and your reality will be. :) Loves...

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anne
02/16/2013 12:15am

Thank-you for sharing that with us and especially with Juli. It can feel very isolating when we are faced with enormous challenges. Even in a room filled with loved ones, we can feel alone and misunderstood. I think knowing we are NOT alone in medical challenges is essential. It is comforting to know that others battle every day too. It gives me strength when I see that other people have not given up their fight. I believe that honesty and sharing provide such comfort. Thank-you Cene and of course a big thank-you to Juli <3 God Bless

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02/14/2013 12:21am

Your love story moved my heart. I had a terrible 2 years ago. I met my man in hospital and he took care of me more than 1 year in hospital. Now we are married. Please believe still there is true love in this world. I wrote a novel about my life and your love story encourage me to overcome all difficulties during the time I was in hospital. I love the song "What are words" and I wish you will be Happy with Chris forever and will recover from brain injury very soon. Happy Valentines!
Lily from VN

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Bill Brenner
02/14/2013 12:28am

Juliana
So glad to hear you are doing well it is rare anymore to find a couple committed to each other it is a refreshing change from all the people you hear about breaking up or getting divorsed. I wish you and Chris all the best in your future. Had to read your Post I Graduated the Bremen class of 1982 with your father so had to read and see how you are. Congratulations and happy valentines day

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Ella
02/14/2013 12:29am

Well done, great job !!!!! Real Love Story. Happy Valentine's Day :)

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Elly
02/14/2013 12:41am

First it was For Juliana and now it is By Juliana....YAY! What a major milestone. You're awesome. Happy Valentine's Day. :)

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shellie
02/14/2013 12:44am

I am very glad to finally read something from you...and not long winded..lol..I hope you valentines day is wonderful...Ive fowolled you both since Amercan Idol..and I could see how much chris cares for you...hold on to every moment with love..as im sure you already do..I love your paintings...and i hope your journey takes you where you want to go...one day at a time is what my grandmother taught me...not always easy but I try..I love that your taking over your blog and I will keep ready and keeping you and chris in my thoughts and prayer.....

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Sherry
02/14/2013 12:50am

Juliana, I loved your 1st blog. It was a perfect start of my Valentines Day to read about a "True Love Story!" You & Chris are the example of a devoted dedication towards one another. I know it hasn't been easy for either one of you, but you have the wonderful support of a loving family & friends that will always help you through the ups & downs. You both are truly a role model for many. I love you both! Happy Hearts Day! xoxo

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Kim Gotz
02/14/2013 12:57am

Loved your post Juliana!!!! I am so happy to be able to hear your perspective and I adored the "Love Note" for Chris. You were speaking the truth... You ARE a lucky one!!! I know your future will hold big things for you... you are truly an inspiration to all of us..... Can't wait to read more!!

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astrid
02/14/2013 1:00am

You are awsome.<3<3<3

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Astrid
02/14/2013 1:02am

You are wonderful Juliana.<3

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Betty J Barratt
02/14/2013 1:10am

Thank you Juliana for sharing your happiness with all of us. You wrote a fantastic first blog post. I'd write one as well, but I don't have a gillion people wanting to know about me and my life, lol. Happy to keep following you. Hugs

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Keersten
02/14/2013 1:17am

You are doing great! That was beautiful! I am inspired by you! I think about you often and always say a silent prayer. God Bless you Juliana!

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Marcus Frostelid
02/14/2013 1:22am

Been following your progress for quiet some time now and damn, you truly are a fighter from the core out. Really nice first blog, Hope your valentines day will be perfect with Chris and your family. Looking forward to keep following you here and on facebook. You truly have had the greatest test a relationship could have, hold on to Chris, he seems to be a really nice guy (and ofcourse a good singer).
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Hope for all the happiness for you in the future!

Warmest regards from a cold Sweden.
Marcus

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Charlene
02/14/2013 1:42am

WOW..WOW..WOW!!!

This...was...FANTASTIC!!
I really enjoyed this blog! You are such a great couple! Still standing strong no matter what ...
This blog update gave me goosebumps!!

CAN'T wait for the next blog! :)))

Happy Valentines Day!!!!! :)))))

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sharon
02/14/2013 2:11am

Iam so happy you share this blog with us.I look forward to reading more.You are really an inspiration to all.Happy Valentines Day to you and your family.

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Tracie McDaniel
02/14/2013 2:26am

WOW!!! You are amazing!!! Happy Valentine's Day to you and your beloved, Chris!!! You two have such a special relationship...thank you for sharing your story! I look forward to reading your future posts. :-):-):-)

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Sabina Husanovic
02/14/2013 2:27am

Hello beautiful!

It was a while ago now I read about your destiny, and since then I have followed your progress through your mother here on the blog. I'm so impressed with you and your progress, and you are living proof that anything is possible only if you have the will.

I can not describe in words my joy over all your achievements and that now it is YOU who write here. Good job with the first post and hope that it will be many more.

 Thank you for sharing your love note to Chris Medina. You two are an amazing couple who are meant for each other. Hope you had a wonderful Valentine's Day together.

Looking forward to more updates from you. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Many warm greetings from a cold Sweden
Sabina

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Aunt Dolores
02/14/2013 3:03am

My second attempt at a reply; I'm new at this blog business. You are wonderful. Happy St. Valentine's day.

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Kristi
02/14/2013 4:47am

Hi Juliana,

I have peeked you mothers post from the time i heard from you and it is really nice to hear that you are doing well. Happy Valentines day to you all and best wishes from snowy Estonia.

Kristi

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02/14/2013 5:29am

Whow Juliana I am so thrilled that you have chosen to write a blog for us! I have been readin following your updates since Chris was on Idol and I will say your mom did a great job. Bbbuuuuttttttt how exciting YOU now get to blog and give us YOUR own update woop woop so exciting.
You will do awesome
And happy valentines day - thank you for sharing your first blog post!

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Rebecca Östlund
02/14/2013 5:37am

Since the very first day i heard about your accident i have been following every news, blogs etc.
I cried like a baby the first time i heard "What are words" on the radio. And i'm not gonna lie by telling you i'm not crying when i hear it today either ;)
You are by far the strongest woman alive i have ever read and heard about, and you are truly a kind of a role model to me today.

Even from about 7.000 km away i can feel the love between you and Chris.
I LOVE your story, and you, Juliana, really make me feel like nothing's impossible!

I'm terrible sorry for my crappy english, but i hope i'm making myself understood.

/Sweden

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Janet Spencer Barnes
02/14/2013 6:09am

OMG! I am so excited for Juli right now I want to wake her up to see the response! Juliana, you were right, you ARE ready. Keep them coming, let them see everything you have become. Proud proud proud proud of YOU!!!

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Lena Jansson
02/14/2013 6:17am

You are an amazing mother. I have 2 daugthers, 5 granddaugters and 1 greatgranddaughter so i now what you are going tthrough. My enlish is very bad. I,m living i sweden in the north. Lots of love from me

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Sandy
02/14/2013 1:59pm

From one mother to another, I can feel you BEAMING!!! Way to go Janet; you did the best thing you could for Juli, you let her begin to spread her own wings! Love to you both!

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craig rogers
02/16/2013 3:16pm

yep, i agree, you're pretty great janet :-)

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Lena Jansson
02/14/2013 6:10am

I,m so happy for you Juliana. You are an amazing girl and i wich you and Cris all the happines.Yous mother are a very good mum. I,m from the north of sweden and have 2 daugter 5 grandchildren and 1 greatgrandchild.Take care of You, Ckris and your mother Janet

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Leigh
02/14/2013 6:42am

You are AWESOME! And, I can't wait to see more of your art. Juliana, you are such an inspiration.

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Amanda Andersson
02/15/2013 3:13am

Congratz to this great looking, well written, interesting blog! You must feel really proud today, being the autor to it and having such enormous positive respons to it! I loved everything about it! You are very good in expressing your point and I was happily surprised with your inviting attitude of sharing your life, feelings and thoughts with us, so thanks for that! Finally congratz to having found an amazing fiance. He truly loves you!

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Carla Del Porto
02/14/2013 6:57am

It is so fun to get to know you and not just of you. I think you have a fun personality and you are probably a handful. Am I right? And well worth it, I am sure. What a beautiful picture of you and Chris. Your hair is just amazing, it shines like no other. I love your art, I mean it. It is so beautiful and so full of what you were feeling at the time. Where is Grandma's, it's my favorite! You are beautiful. love, carla

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Karen
02/14/2013 8:01am

Juliana your profile picture is BEAUTIFUL!! Congrats on your first blog! It will be fun to see your sense of humor shine through in your writings. I laughed at the part that your blog won't be as long as your mom's. Can't wait for the next entry...Happy Valentines Day!

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Camilla <3
02/14/2013 8:03am

This was so beautiful written and it really touched me! You're so beautiful and Chris, I have deep respect for him because he's there for you!

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02/14/2013 8:17am

Yay Juli! I am so happy for you and happy that I get to read your blog posts. I love it!

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Leda
02/14/2013 8:19am

Amazing! You are simply A-M-A-Z-I-N-G!! I LOVED this blog and I have to admit (much like an addict) I can't wait until your next one! Is it any wonder why the world can't seem to get enough of you? The world fell in love with you when Chris shared the story of your accident on American Idol, NOW the world is falling in love with you all over again through your blog(s)! Thank you for sharing your life, your love and your heart with us. We love you!

p.s. Looking forward to a new blog!

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Ellyn Blauser
02/14/2013 8:19am

You go girl! Look at all these responses Miss Famous! I can't even tell you how impressed I am over what a FANTASTIC job you did here! Looking forward to many more! Happy Valentine's Day to you and Chris! Love you lots!

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Amy
02/14/2013 8:31am

Way to go Juli! Love your first blog and can't wait to read more! Happy
Valentines day to both of you

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Jill Green
02/14/2013 8:52am

What a blessing to wake up today and find your new Blog Juli!!! WE ARE ALL SO EXCITED FOR YOU. I can't wait to read more. I can tell already that you have a flair for writing, just by the way you wrote this. It's fun, witty, heartfelt, honest, and beautiful. I love it!! BRAVO!! We want more!!! Happy Valentines Day sweetie. :).

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Jen D.
02/14/2013 9:05am

Great post, Julianna! I smiled as I read this because my fiance is also an amazing man and there aren't many like him out there. We are lucky girls! Happy Valentine's Day!

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Connie Richardson
02/14/2013 9:16am

Great Job! Loved reading your poem. Gave me an idea what to write for my husband! Thanks! Happy Valentines to you and Chris. Love from Nebraska.

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Jen Blau
02/14/2013 9:22am

Juliana, what a great first post! It's nice to see things from your perspective. I mean don't get me wrong, I always enjoyed reading what your mom had to say, but it's nice to see a different side and a different point of view. It's nice to see you are in there, even though it may be difficult to speak right now, at least hearing you speak on a blog is great to get to know a little bit more about you and who you are and what you are all about. I will continue to look forward to many more blogs from you. They will be a joy to read! Take care hun, congrats on the first post/blog from you and looking forward to the next one from you hopefully very soon!

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Melanie
02/14/2013 9:33am

That was beautiful! Can't wait to read more posts! Been following Janets blog since your story was on American Idol.

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pat
02/14/2013 9:45am

Juli, what a blessing it was to read this post on Valentines Day! It's just beautiful! (and a very good reminder for me of what love in a relationship should be.) I am so looking forward to reading more from you. Happy Valentine's Day to you and Chris. Love, thoughts & prayers!

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Kelly
02/14/2013 9:47am

Very cool and so happy to read your first post!!!! Looking so forward to more!!!! Happy V Day to you both!!!! :)

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Kourtney
02/14/2013 9:51am

I'm SO happy to be able to start reading blogs from your perspective! Your mom is a wonderful writer, and I would love to see a new book by her, but I love the aspect of reading blogs from Your view. Also, you look absolutely fantastic in that picture at the top of your blod post! I love it! <3 Good job, and can't wait to hear more form you!

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Johanna Mäkiniitty
02/15/2013 3:55pm

I just love to read your thoughts and what you have in your mind =) keep going!

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Lindsae Hadley
02/14/2013 10:07am

I've been following you through your mom's blog since I saw you and Chris on American Idol! You are both such an inspiration for my husband and me. My husband is a paraplegic and while its very different from TBI, they share many of the same challenges. It's so wonderful to read your first blog! I look forward to reading many more and seeing more of your artwork! Happy Valentines Day to you both!
-Lindsae

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Paulino
02/14/2013 10:25pm

Juliana, i live in brazil, firstly i´m sory about my english i nver study that language before, i just saw a couple of american movies...
i d like so to say to u something
your love story save my relationship, your fiance its a big example for us, men, sounds weird but i cried seeing your vids, its beautiful
i hope god and jesus keeping bless you every day !!!
i believe in you Juliana, u should proud yourself, u r a winner!!!
God bless you!!!

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Bridget
02/14/2013 10:13am

You are both an inspiration and a blessing. God bless you and Chris!!

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Carol
02/14/2013 10:56am

You are an inspiration to many. Stay strong!

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02/14/2013 4:49pm

Your love is stronger than any difficulty. Stronger than you can imagine. It's beautiful to hear and see ... I love you, and Brazil rooting for you. Juli & Chris forever. Tayanne Brazil

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Channahs
02/14/2013 10:57am

I am so very glad to see you taking the reins of your own blog! It's so wonderful to see you healing so well! Girlfriend, it takes time and lot's of it! It's been 4 years since my son's TMI, he's 20 now, but he's improved so much in that short time. It started with talking, then walking (wheelchair, walker, PT out the wazoo), then finishing high school, to driving, now he's in his second year to get his Associate's Degree, just bought an RV to live in next door (out of mom's house LOL) and his next goal is to find a part time job. That's one of the harder things for him because as you know, people THINK you're not capable when you darn sure are!

Happy Valentines Day hon! You've got one heck of a sweetheart there and we all think you're both pretty awesome.

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anne
02/16/2013 12:27am

Thank-you for sharing your story. I just want to say that I am deeply humbled and in awe of you, Janet, and all parents who have a medical mountain to climb. A parent's love is needed as much as the oxygen we breathe. Seeing your child suffer is devastating and heart-breaking. Moms like you and Janet make me appreciate every moment I get the honour of being a mom. I pray your son continues to heal and finds true happiness. Sounds like he has an incredible mom. May God provide strength, peace, serenity and hope for you every day.

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Michelle
02/14/2013 11:05am

Juli, your love story with Chris is a beautiful one! You are one of the lucky few that has this true, unconditional, deep love that so many people only dream of. Thank you for posting on facebook and now on your blog, sharing your lifelong love affair and inspiring so many!!

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Lisa
02/14/2013 11:26am

You are both such beautiful people, inside and out! Enjoyed reading your thoughts. :)

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Paul Pasquale
02/14/2013 11:40am

What a great day to start on your own and I enjoyed reading your old facebook post. I hope things keep getting better for you.

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Katie
02/14/2013 12:02pm

How could we not like what you wrote? It's fabulous :) What a great way to start the morning off! Your mom's writing was wonderful but I'm so glad to hear your voice on here!!! I was smiling as soon as I started reading it :) Your and Chris' love is so special and inspiring.
I can't wait to read more of your thoughts<3 Thank yoU for sharing with us. Happy Valentine's Day to you and Chris!

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Marta
02/14/2013 12:19pm

I'm spanish, and I really love you juliana, I admire you. I'm looking forward to read all your future posts! thank you for everything, love youu and kisses for Chris!

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02/14/2013 12:47pm

i love your post juliana.. i love these lines from you..

<3 I know I can truly trust him. There's a huge difference in wanting to believe you have that in someone and actually KNOWING it's there.

<3 even after almost 7 years, (almost 11 years now) he still compliments me every day and really makes me feel attractive and appreciated by him.

<3 he accepts the difficulty that is me for who I am...this is a big one, I don't think I could count on many people doing this the way he does.

<3 he is genuinely interested in my own personal happiness outside of our relationship and encourages me to go out and do the things that make me happy and will improve my life.

<3 I secretly like that he sucks at surprises because it just assures me even more that he's a pretty terrible liar and trickster.

<3 he has a beautiful last name that I will proudly be taking later this year. :)

i'm happy to know that you are having progress regarding your situation.. i watched that audition of Chris in American Idol and i fall in love with your love story.. it's really a "one of a kind" love story.. you are both lucky to have each other.. we are born for a purpose and you and Chris are each other's purpose.. keep the faith juliana.. everything will fall on it's perfect place, in time.. you and Chris are going to be great parents.. when is the wedding? i hope you guys can share us the video of your soon-to-be wedding.. we would like to witness your happiest day.. i'm a fan of you and Chris.. i'm from Philippines..

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Diane Sharpless
02/14/2013 2:11pm

Wonderful! Love hearing about you and Chris!

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adam
02/14/2013 3:20pm

We are all proud of you juli! good job writing and i love the positive attitude! keep it up. we are all here to support you.

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Katie
02/14/2013 3:46pm

How could we not like what you wrote? It's fabulous :) Your mom's writing was wonderful but I'm so glad to hear your voice on here!!! I was smiling as soon as I started reading it :) Your and Chris' love is so special and inspiring.
I can't wait to read more of your thoughts<3 Thank yoU for sharing with us. Happy Valentine's Day to you and Chris!

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Jim Dolan
02/14/2013 4:38pm

Nicely done, Juliana. Very nicely done!

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02/14/2013 4:43pm

Juli since I knew his story and Chris twist each day more for you. My father also suffered a severe brain injury. More each day that passes that improves a bit, is that we have a lot of patience, I know it will never be the same ... More my love for him only increases. You an angel of God and the love you chris very ... He is the kind of man who does everything for his property. I'm rooting for you too and I'm very anxious to see what they will write. May God bless you and your family. Tayanne Brazil kisses

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Juliana Gutier Ruis
02/14/2013 7:54pm

Hi Juli, always read your blog and just win another Brazilian fan ... I'm really hoping for his recovery. You've always been a pretty girl .. beautiful .. beautiful .... An example of life .....


Cheers always ...

Juliana-Brazil

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Linda Haskins
02/14/2013 9:26pm

Great job Juliana ! I rejoice in your continued recovery and future with your precious Chris !

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Vickey Lynn
02/14/2013 10:46pm

Love it Juli! You are a natural and knowing you've come so far in your recovery is SOOO exciting!!! GREAT JOB!!! Love ya girl!!!

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Melissa Marquais
02/15/2013 6:51pm

That is so sweet! I got a kick out of the "watches American Idol and tries to pretend he is as into it as you!" Now THAT'S just classic!! hehehe I'm still laughing!! So great to see you so happy and in love!

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margie
02/15/2013 8:52pm

What a great first blog! Loved it...read it twice....looking forward to the next one...and more pictures, and artwork, and humor! As always, sending prayers. xxxx

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craig
02/16/2013 2:30pm

I love, love, love this post, knowing it is in your own words Juliana is VERY cool. Made my day! I have been following your story for about one year. I am super happy about your progress, "You go girl!" :-)

*My brother left our house and had a car accident on his way home two years ago (he is now a quadriplegic) so I can relate to some of the trials, pain, etc.

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TseLhamo
02/18/2013 3:42am

Hey Juli! The Blog is awesome <3 Looking forward for more.. God bless u both (U and Chris) always...

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alice
02/18/2013 12:22pm

I went to your Golden Birthday Party, and met Chris, i can totally understand your feelings towards him, he is a sweet tender loving guy. His love for you just overflows, his caring voice when he speaks to you, Juliana you are blessed, and a true inspiration to many! May his love continue to make your recovery smoother and with your Mom's devotion and dedication, you got the best of both worlds! Great, great blog!!!

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Gauri
02/18/2013 12:31pm

Excuse my english..

Hi Juliana, I heard about your story just two weeks ago.
I am 18 years old and I live in Holland and there was a show on tv called
"Idols Worlwide". In this show they show some funny auditions, bad auditions and soms memorable auditions from different country's and different seasons. They showed your fiancé's audition en story
and I have to say... you and your fiance made me cry..
The part where he says "..in sickness and in health. What kind of
man would I be if I would leave her." wauwww
You got the best fiance and I wish you guys all the best.
I am so glad that I found out about this blog and I will read every
blogpost of you. Juliana, I wish you all the best and just so
you know that you're still beautiful and I hope that one day
you will be able to stand on your own feet again and will be able
to hang out like you used to do. May god bless you and give you
all the strengts you need.

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Danielle McCollum-Tucker
02/22/2013 9:53am

So glad you and Chris enjoyed your Valentine's Day. You both are such shining examples of true love. Keep on keeping on girl!

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Jennifer Freil
03/02/2013 6:21pm

Hey Juli, I just wanted to say well done you for now being ready to take over the blog :) I'm so excited to read all your new blogs!!

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    I am engaged to Chris Medina and am spending the rest of my life recovering from a Traumatic Brain Injury. It's been hard but not impossible.  And a lot of good things happened along the way.  Read about them, won't you?

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